The worst cases of cruelty to animals are being committed by your neighbor, possibly someone in your family or even a co-worker. Is it possible even YOU are guilty of committing the worst case of animal cruelty? Every day it is happening a thousand times over and there appears to be no way to stop it.
I know that when you think of “animal cruelty” you might think of cases like 2 monster teenagers throwing gas on a defenceless dog and lighting her up. Or possibly a person who drags a dog a mile or two up a country road until the dog is dead. Or even possibly the deranged psycho who adopted animals out of shelters by the dozens only to take them home and torture and kill them in front of her kids and then bury the dead animals in the backyard.
Those are all extremely horrible cases of animal cruelty that have garnered much attention in the media and within the animal activists community. However those are not the cases of animal cruelty that I am referring to. No, the ones I am going to talk about here are much worse than these because these acts of cruelty are the ultimate betrayal to Man’s Best Friend be that canine or feline.
In the rescue world, we call it “Owner Surrender”.
Meet Patches. Patches is a 14 year old neutered male Pomeranian mix currently waiting in the Brooklyn, NY animal shelter where he will die if not saved by the rescue community. Patches is the victim of owner surrender.
After 14 years of loyalty, friendship, companionship and devotion, this is how Patches is repaid. Dumped in a high kill shelter left there by his cruel owners. What is Patches supposed to think? That he was a bad boy and did something terribly wrong to deserve this? His whole world, everything that he’s known for 14 years tossed into the muddy river because why?
Let me count the ways:
- Too old?
- Can’t afford
- Moving?
- Allergic?
- Sheds?
- New baby?
- Doesn’t get along with new puppy?
- Too many animals?
- Is sick?
- Divorce/Separation?
Those are the top 10 excuses I’ve seen that cruel people surrender their animals to kill shelters. Some of the excuses I’ve seen are beyond bazaar. For instance, a male and female cat surrendered in South Carolina because the male, the son of the female, got his mother pregnant. Both of these cats were killed in the shelter they were surrendered to. (I refuse to use the term “euthanized” for healthy adoptable animals that are killed in shelters). Whatever the excuse, it is completely unacceptable and represents, in my opinion, the ultimate betrayal and cruelty that you can commit to a family pet.
These animals have feelings. I’ve seen it in their faces a thousands times while they sit in shelters knowing they are going to die and not being able to understand where their family went and why they left them in this awful, noisy place filled with the smell of death. They are frightened, sad and depressed. They are heartbroken.
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Those of us who truly love our animals and think of them as family cannot fathom how anyone can just dump a family member at a kill shelter no matter what the excuse. We are the ones who would sleep in the car with our pets if necessary or go without our own food so we can feed our 4 legged companions. I would cut off my right arm before I would ever surrender Jazz or Chico to any shelter, kill or no kill.
The amount of owner surrenders has recently increased alarmingly because of excuse #2, “can’t afford”. Now I realize that times are extremely difficult right now and people are hurting economically. However that does not excuse the act of abandoning your pet to a kill shelter. More often than not, the family pet is the first sacrificial lamb of economic hard times and that is just not right. If you are so hard pressed financially that you can no longer support your pet, find a foster home that will keep him/her until you are back on your feet. There are literally thousands of rescue organizations that will help you either keep your pet or find someone responsible and capable of giving your pet a new loving and forever home. Do some research, take the time to make sure that if you can no longer care for your pet properly that there is someone who will.
Additionally there are other organizations that will help you to find a way to keep your pet. Seek them out. Make phone calls, get on the internet. Find them. Do whatever you have to make sure you have explored every possible means to keep your pet with you.
For every excuse listed above for surrendering your family pet, there are plenty of alternatives to dumping your pet at a kill shelter. Every single excuse used means you just don’t care and that means you are committing the ultimate act of cruelty towards an animal who cannot speak for himself and has no choice about his future.
When you adopt an animal it is for life and if you don’t intend to keep that animal safe and protected for his/her entire life, you have no business adopting him/her in the first place.

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